Psychic Development Tip: Don’t Ask for Validation!
I can’t believe it’s July already! Can you?! This week’s chat is all about when you’re doing readings and/or learning how to access and tap into your own psychic and intuitive abilities. It’s a bit of a tricky subject, but here goes:You Can’t Rely on the Person You’re Reading to Validate what You’re Getting!
And you can’t rely on them to tell you if what you are getting is accurate or not! It’s human nature to want validation, but seeking it can actually stop you from forging ahead in your psychic space.
If you want to do readings professionally for others, it’s crucial to have a practice period. Practice on a lot of people for free, and choose people who will encourage you to keep going with where you are going. Because there is no pay, there should be little to no expectation for you to be on point and to perform for them. They will know you’re practicing, which gives you a free pass to explore what comes through.
Paid Readings = Expectations
When you get into doing paid readings for people, there are a lot of expectations. You are expected to give answers, to be in a service role, to help them, to facilitate healing for them, and to be simpatico with them. That creates a whole other dynamic to the reading situation. If you are not well-versed and have not had the much-needed training period, it’s going to be hard for you to let go and let the wacky intuitive side flow.
Unpaid “Training” Readings = Freedom to Let it Flow
To be honest with you, being psychic isn’t about being practical. We can apply it to practical things and everyday life, but that’s not what it is at it’s very core. At the core, being psychic is about being wild and liberated and free and exploring the multiverse, talking to guides, aliens, angels, and God. It’s about all of that and more. It’s beautiful and wonderful. If you can take as much time as possible to let that inform you as you are practicing, there’s no telling what you’ll discover. The beauty and magic of it is indescribable. However, applying it to the physical world really hedges that in. People need you to give them concrete answers to questions like “Should I leave my husband, move here or there, leave my job,” etc.
If you let yourself get confident in your training period, when you do work with people for a monetary exchange, you will then be able to say “This what I am getting, and I know there is truth to it.” And eventually, you can guide them and help them to be more in tuned with this sacred, magical, intuitive realm.
Don’t Ask for Validation!
I know it’s hard, but during your practice readings, try not to ask the other person too often if what you are saying makes sense. Now, this is different than if you’re playing with your friends. Supportive buddies will totally help you and will love to tell you when they “get” what you are saying. With unpaid practice readings, though, try to just barrel through it. Your client may not understand what you are saying or connect the dots until maybe 2 weeks or a year after the session!I
The thing is, your client may not even be fully present for the reading, and therefore might not get what you are saying. So just because they say something doesn’t make sense doesn’t mean you are not onto something totally accurate and truthful!
Trust yourself, and keep practicing, and you will get there. I promise.
Thank you so much for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!
