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Have you noticed how much information is in front of us on a daily basis? We’re constantly bombarded by news, advertisements, and other messaging and imagery. In fact, so much information (and energy) is put in front of us that we sometimes resort to ways of managing it that we’re not even fully aware of. One of these ways is by thinking about a particular romantic interest, to the extent where everything else fades to the background. Thoughts of that person take prevalence. This can be fun at first, but can turn detrimental when the other person isn’t good for you, or isn’t reciprocating.

Yes – this week I’m bringing you another Get Him Off Your Mind video! As you know, this is a program I created for women who are experiencing this situation. Over the years, it’s been the #1 topic women have come to me seeking advice on. The issue is so prevalent that I knew there had to be a way to help, and Get Him Off Your Mind does just that. It gently guides you through getting him out of your system, so you can reclaim your life, and get your energy back.

It’s all about Being Busy.

One of the most important things you can do if you’re in the throes of this type of scenario is to get yourself as BUSY AS POSSIBLE. When you have time for your mind to wander, it is going to naturally run over to him. Those thoughts divert your focus from your own life, though, and this weakens you. What’s healthy for you is to bring your energy back to yourself. When you’re thinking about him a lot, your energy is going to him and hitting a wall because he is not giving you what you need. Your attention is as scattered as it would be if you were watching Netflix, talking on the phone, cleaning the house, eating, listening to music, and scrolling through your Instagram and Twitter feeds while working, fielding emails, DM’s, and text messages all at once.

The best thing you can do to bring your errant thoughts about him back to yourself and your own life is to throw yourself into something that forces you to focus 100%. This way, you concentrate on that and nothing but that. This is going to save you and start to break the cycle once and for all. 

At first it won’t be that easy, but as you continue, you will get better, and soon he is going to be a distant memory.

Multi-Tasking is the Norm – but Focus is the Key

I know how easy it is to multi-task. I was joking about watching Netflix while doing a million other things, but the truth is, many of us actually do that. And while it does scatter your energy, if watching TV while running on the treadmill while listening to music holds your focus and stops you from thinking about him for 45 minutes, then that is what you need to do!

This year I started training in Jiu Jitsu. I love it because it requires me to be fully ground and present. As with being in the psychic space, I literally can’t think of anything but Jiu Jitsu when I’m doing it, or else I a) won’t be able to do it right and B) I will likely get injured. 

So if you can find something to do that requires all of your energy, do it! See how long you can focus on it. You will soon notice that your thoughts of him diminish dramatically as you hold the focus on other activities. First it’ll be 20 minutes, then an hour, then 4 hours, and eventually you won’t think of him at all. 

Call in the Forces!

Another thing that will be helpful is to reach out to your friends and family for support and let them help you to think about other things. Get involved! Listen to what they have to say! Get out and do things together! Take a weekend trip, go do something fun. Call in the forces! This reminds you that you have a life and fun things to do. As an added bonus, this will naturally help raise your self-esteem because for a lot of you going though this, I know your self-esteem has really taken a hit. I address that and help you with it in the program as well. 

Being busy helps immensely! It’s simple, I know, but when you do it right, it’s like this magical thing happens, and he starts to fade to the background. Sometimes it’s the most basic things that get us through the tough times. And I know this is a difficult situation to be in. I truly hope this helps! And for for more info on the Get Him Off Your Mind program, click here.

Thanks for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

This week I’m continuing the thread I’ve been talking about lately, which is when you’re obsessing about someone and you can’t get them off your mind. This issue is so prevalent among women in particular in modern-day society that I created a solution called Get Him Off Your Mind to help. This 28-day program includes powerful, life-affirming energy healing techniques as well as practical everyday assistance to help you recover and get your energy and power back. If you’d like to heal from this NOW, Get Him Off Your Mind provides immediate relief.

Don’t Give Your Power Away!

Today’s chat and video is all about your personal power. To be blunt, you lose that power when you are investing in someone who is not giving you what you’re looking for or what you need.

When you are really wrapped up with someone to the point where you’re thinking about them all through the day and night, a part of your life force energy actually leaves you. It drains out of your biofield/body/aura and goes out and sits with that other person. What that does to YOU is that it robs you of your power because you are not fully grounded, centered, in your body, and engaged in your own life. 

I know that’s a sobering thought! Another thing that this does to you is it makes it hard for you to manifest and create good things for yourself (like the type of relationship you really desire) because you are not present. 

The Lights are on but Nobody’s Home

I can’t stress it enough: when you are thinking about someone constantly, your energy is literally with that person. That’s how strong energy is! You are also feeding a negative pattern of your energy being out there hitting a wall, as the other person is not reciprocating with love. This ends up harming your self-esteem. Your energy is basically going nowhere.

When you sit back and realize how detrimental this is to you, whether or not you take the Get Him Off Your Mind program, you can start to bring your energy back. You will remember who you are and what you’re here in this life to focus on.

3 Easy Tips to Call Your Energy Back

Your energy belongs with you, in your body and your own energy field – not with anyone else. Once you know how to call it back to you, things will get much easier. To that end, here are 3 basic ways to get started doing just that:

1. Meditate! 

Put your attention and focus on your heart space and center yourself there. Imagine there is a magnet in your heart, and that magnet is pulling your energy back from the other person. Just keep calling it back and calling it back, letting that powerful magnet pull your energy into you, and watch as the light of your heart chakra gets brighter and brighter. Affirm how much you love yourself and your life and let your beautiful spirit and heart radiate love to your body and your mind.

2. Stop yourself.

The minute you start to think about him, crush that thought immediately. With repeated effort, this will reprogram both your conscious and subconscious minds. Just look at your hands or feet, look around the room, focus on your work, get into something that is good for you. Start a project that’s creative. Talk to other people – that will take a lot of your energy, because you need to be present with them. As much as you can, focus on other projects and activities. Eventually, what you focus on will be where your energy goes, and you will re-direct it from that other person and into something much more productive.

3. Use a Talisman.

This is sort of piggybacking on the other 2 tips, but wear something like a bracelet, ring, mala beads, or magical talisman. Every time you think of that person, tap the object and ground yourself by holding onto it and thinking thoughts that remind you of why the person isn’t good for you. You can also think of a negative trait that the other person has. If you don’t want to think negative things, just think about how good it is for you to focus on yourself and your life instead. With practice, this, too, will reprogram your mind.

You do Have the Power to Stop!

Remember: no matter how powerful the connection is with this other person, you do have the power to stop. Sometimes you might let yourself slip into thoughts about them because it’s fun or it helps you to focus on that person vs. other painful issues in your life. But when all of this stops being fun, simply call your power back. Get centered and grounded so that you can manifest and ultimately, when you are ready, bring in someone who is good for you.

If you are grappling with this, know you’re not alone. It’s very prevalent and that’s why I created this program– so people would have a solution!

I hope that helps. Thanks for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

Did you know that personal objects are filled with energy? Metals, plastics, and fabrics all absorb the energies emanated by the person who uses and wears them. Therefore, when you’re in the process of breaking up with or detaching from someone and you want to be completely free, it’s important to get rid of or clear objects associated with that person. 

Get Him Off Your Mind

I’ve been making a lot of videos about this lately, focusing on the Get Him Off Your Mind program that I created for women who are going though this and need assistance. It’s very common! And I have to extend my apologies to all the men out there who need this. It happens to guys, too, but because my primary experience has been with helping women, that’s what I’m best able to speak to.

Objects Hold Energy!

Let’s say you’ve ended it with someone and you’re trying to get him off your mind. But he gave you a piece of jewelry, and every time you look at it, you’re reminded of him, and you feel angry, hurt, or upset. Or, perhaps you have a dress you wore on a memorable date with him. Every time you put it on, the energy you emanated while you were with him reminds you of the good times you’re no longer having with him. This actually pulls your energy down!

Perhaps you lived with him, and now he’s gone. But there in your living room is the recliner that he sat in every night. He’s no longer there, but that recliner is chock full of his energy! It’s all over it, seeping into it, and it’s like his little shadow is there in your environment.

Clean & Clear

In each of these cases, the best thing you can do is to either get rid of or clear these objects. It’s easier to clear items like jewelry, because you can give them a sea salt bath or set them out in the sun to reset their vibrations. But for larger items like heavily used furniture, donating them is the best option. You’ll notice that your space feels lighter and more vibrant after you do so. And you can take it a step further and do an entire house clearing after this, too, removing all unwanted energy from your environment.

For some, there will be a massive level of purging. I’m talking clearing out energy that’s been around for 20-30 years or so. If this is the case for you, tackling it in little steps or stages will be the best way forward. If there are certain items you know you need to get rid of but you can’t bring yourself to let go of, try letting someone else be the guardian of them for a while. 

For many years, my friend Rebecca and I would exchange special items of clothing that we loved but didn’t wear anymore. That way, we felt safe…if we wanted it back, we knew how to get it. In most cases, it never came to that, and we were able to eventually let those things go. 

It’s All about Your Comfort Level.

The purging process is really about your level of comfort and what will be best for you at the present moment. You can be a revolutionary if you want: get rid of everything you wore when you were with that person! Re-vamp your entire closet, re-do your whole social media, and change your entire music library. Eliminate everything that you remember about that other person as well as yourself when you were with him! Or, you can just gently release a few token items that you know will lighten you up.  

Whatever method you choose to follow, know that by taking these steps, you will evolve and grow a new part of yourself separate from that person. 

The key is to remember that everything is energy, and that items hold energy. When you cleanse them or let them go, you are also freeing yourself of the energy that tied you to that person. 

I hope this helps! For more information on Get Him off Your Mind, click here: http://www.gethimoffyourmind.com.

That’s all for this week! Thanks so much for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

I have something to share with you that might surprise you: one of the major reasons people book sessions with me and other intuitives is to get the closure that another person won’t give them. 

In fact, this situation has been so prevalent over the years that I created an entire immersive program to help people heal from it. It’s called Get Him Off Your Mind,and I developed it solely for women who are caught up in this common situation of obsessing over a guy and having a hard time getting him out of their system. I have to apologize to the men out there who are having this issue as well. I know you go through it too, but the majority of people who seek advice from me are women, so I catered the program to this particular situation/dynamic.

OMG Ghosting…Really?

Clients tell me time and time again that guys just fall off the face of the planet, ghost, disappear, and never call or text again. This happens after one date, 3 months of dating, and longer than that. It happens across the spectrum with different age groups. As an intuitive empath, I’m devastated by the fact that after having an intense, passionate encounter or relationship with someone, someone can just disappear. I’ve seen how difficult it can be for clients to be on the receiving, or rather non-receiving, end of this. 

He just…Can’t.

I will say that in most cases, these men just don’t want to have a conversation. It’s easier to disappear than to talk, let you down, see you get angry or know they made you cry. Sad but true. 

A woman’s typical first reaction is to try to get that the man to communicate and say something, to just be honest, upfront, to communicate. Especially if the woman is spiritually evolved and knows how to “talk it out.” 

A lot of women want to write, too. They can easily craft long letters and text messages about things and send them to the men who are acting up. The majority of the time, though, that doesn’t get them what they need. Their lengthy messages will garner a non-response, or a B.S. response that doesn’t answer anything. 

2 Ways to Heal from Being Ghosted

With that in mind, here are 2 ways to help you get closure when the guy won’t give it to you:

TIP 1:

Go ahead and write out everything you’re feeling! Get everything out of your system. Write every day for a week, purge it all, and do NOT send it to the guy. You will likely not get a response! When you are through with everything, and I mean EVERYTHING, go ahead and burn it all up and release it. Get witchy and do a sacred ceremony, releasing that energy when the moon is waning. This is the perfect planetary time to get things out of your life once and for all.  

You will feel a difference…at least you are able to DO SOMETHING! There is great power and magic in ceremonial practices like this. Release the pain, let go of the burden, and most importantly, release his hold over you. 

TIP 2:

Listen to the free grounding and centering meditation on my website. It’s amazing, and I do it before every session. Next, while you are still in that mediative space, call in the spirit of the other person and have a conversation with him. Say everything you need to say. Get it all out!  This is an energetic exchange, and doing the grounding mediation first primes you to enter into the intuitive realm. 

What is important to do after this is to say “I forgive you, I release you, and I thank you for leaving my life, with love and gratitude. Our karmic agreement is done.”

Then, you can imagine you’re breaking agreement sticks that bound you together, and burn them in the violet flame that transmutes and heals all energy. 

These may seem like simple techniques, but they are indeed very powerful. You will notice a difference! He might just contact you out of the blue after this, so be prepared, and be strong.

And for more information on the Get Him off Your Mind program, click here. 

That’s all for this week! Thanks so much for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

 

This week I’m continuing the conversation about relationships – namely, when you’re into somebody who isn’t good for you. Either they’re not returning your affections, or they don’t know you exist, or you finally realize it’s just not working out. Whatever the case, it’s time to move on – but you’re finding that difficult to do!

As you know, I created a program called  Get Him Off Your Mindspecifically for women who are going through this. It’s chock full of energy healings and everyday practices to help you get your power back and reclaim your life.

And as for you amazing men out there, I am sorry I don’t have a Get Her Off Your Mind program available for you right now! I know you go through this too, but my main experience over the years has been with helping women, and I can only teach what I reallyknow. Men go through this too, though, and I do not mean to exclude you guys. I love you! And today’s video applies to both men and women alike. 

 

Trace the Issue back to it’s Origin

If you find yourself in a situation where you can’t get someone off your mind, one of the things that can help is to stop and think about whether or not you have experienced a similar situation in the past. For example, when I was working on getting someone off my mind a while back, I realized this had first happened to me with a boy I liked in 10th grade, after my mom had died. He was unlike anyone I had ever met – the first and only punk/goth kid at school. I became goth because of him!!!! He transferred in during the school year and we became fast friends. I didn’t realize I actually had a crush on him until he was shipped off to live with his dad. And then I was completely and utterly devastated. 

What typically happens is, an original issue (and by that I mean when it first begins, usually when you are young) has to do with karma. You go through it, you’re in pain, it sucks, and it shapes a part of who you are. Then, as you go through life, you inadvertently repeat it or allow situations to happen where you are in that same pattern again and again and again. 

Unhealthy Patterns CAN be Broken!

The minute you know you have set up a disruptive pattern, karma or not, you can stop it and break it. So, something starts out being karma and it’s hard, but then because we don’t know any better we just keep doing the same. But when we get fed up with that, or realize that it just keeps on happening, that’s when we have the power to change it. Our awareness of it is the key!!!

Self-Sabotage

Oftentimes, with original karma that sets itself into a pattern, it’s like this weird, twisted unfair self-sabotage thing that is happening. For example, if you are engaging with someone and it’s not working, it’s like a withholding or withdrawal of love and affection that you are acutely aware of. You crave love, affection, and attention. That is beautiful! In a great situation, the other person would reciprocate, and you would have a great relationship with them.

When that is not happening, it creates a pain story. You just experience more of the same. It becomes so devastating that it can really crush you. It’s all-encompassing, and you feel like you are never going to get out of it. When you finally do, you go through life and then a few more years later, you experience the same thing all over again – unless you break the pattern with your intention.

It’s all about the Genesis

Again, one of the most effective ways to stop a pattern and heal it is to trace it back to the genesis, the origin. In many circumstances, I’ve discovered that there was a withholding of love from childhood. I know I experienced that, even before my high school goth crush. My mother divorced my father, who I loved dearly, when I was 3, and then wouldn’t let him have visitation. He’s a wonderful man and I am only now realizing just how very painful it was to lose him as a child. I’m tearing up right now just thinking about this as I write – so I know I still have healing and clearing work to do around that.

So, if you can just think back to your childhood and discover where the issue first started, experiencing the emotions by either writing the story out or just talking about it/meditating/etc.. it will help. It may take time, even decades, if you’re like me, but hey – what’s a better way to spend your time than to improve yourself! 

Destructive patterns can be broken. We’re not doomed or destined to struggle forever!

We are all here to learn, grow, heal, and recover those parts of ourselves that are broken. To bring them back together and to be whole again. And romantic relationships are the perfect playing field for personal growth.

I hope this helps! Thanks for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

Have you ever felt an incredibly strong connection to someone that you just can’t explain? It’s great when you get to have them in your life as a friend, family member, or life partner. But when it’s not-so-great is when you’re romantically interested in them, you know they’re a soul mate, and yet it still doesn’t work out the way you’d like it to.

If this has happened or is happening to you, I’m so sorry! I know how hard it can be. Over the years I’ve worked with many people who have gone through this and helped them recover. In fact, I created an entire program specifically for women who are going through this called Get Him Off Your Mind.It offers day-by-day support to help you detach and reclaim your energy and power. It will be available in early 2020 – just click here for more info. 

Soul Recognition

One of my dear clients recently had a “soul recognition” experience with a man. He’s not her type at all, and yet she is inexplicably drawn to him. So we explored it in a session, and discovered that it’s not just pheromones. The main explanation, in her case, as in that of many other women, is that she recognized him from another lifetime. Our souls recognize each other – or, in many cases, very spiritually attuned people experience soul recognition, while those who are more asleep oftentimes do not. Which makes it hard!

One of the most common ways we recognize people is by looking into their eyes. My first long term boyfriend, who I met in college, was most definitely a soulmate. I would get this tickled feeling when I looked into his eyes! They were so familiar, and they made me happy. He helped me through a very difficult time in my life, and I honestly don’t know if I would be here today if not for his support. We’re still friends, but we were not meant to be long-term life partners, and I’m very much OK with that. 

Intuitive, Self-Aware Women KNOW These Things!

What I have seen happen with the highly intuitive and very self-aware women I’ve worked with is that they experience an inexplicable draw and connection to somebody and they feel certain it is meant to be. And yet, when it doesn’t work out, the resulting pain is very uncomfortable. They come to me for sessions seeking advice, healing, and closure. And what comes up in many instances is that the other, non-aware person is here trying to figure other things out. They’re on a completely different path in this incarnation.

For whatever reason, the guy needs to go it alone, to learn lessons in this life that he couldn’t learn if he was with the woman. Although he has a beautiful soul that the woman definitely recognizes, he might have a complicated personality, or be a mess at relationships.

Get Him Off Your Mind

If you have experienced or are experiencing this, know that you’re not alone! It’s very common, and it’s the entire reason I created Get Him Off Your Mind.  I wanted to provide some sort of help, some type of solution to this epidemic of being attached to people who aren’t feeling the same way towards you that you feel towards them. 

When you are invested in someone who’s not vibing with you, it robs you of your power and takes your energy away from yourself. It drains you! A part of your life force is entangled with theirs, and if they are not reciprocating, your energy is out there doing nothing. You need to do what is good for you and in your best interest. In most cases, that means bringing your thoughts and life force energy, or chi, back to yourself. When you do that, you become center, grounded, and powerful.

I hope this helps and makes sense!

Thank you so much for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

This week’s video is about psychic development, and it’s a tricky topic, so bear with me as I try to explain it! 

It’s that some of us use psychic/intuitive insight as a way to control our environment, giving us a very deep and real sense of comfort in this crazy world.

Being really tuned in, knowing how to read oracles and activate our own psychic senses at will, is great. It helps us to be more wise, and to navigate life more easily. What it doesn’t do, however, is give us a “Get out of Jail Free” card. While we can avoid certain situations, we can’t avoid the bigger life lessons altogether. 

Ignorance is Bliss!

No matter how much we can try to navigate, plan and prepare for life using oracles and other forms of divination, some things are bound to happen no matter what. In many cases, NOT knowing we’re going to have to go through an unavoidable difficult situation is easier than finding out in advance. To be honest, some things are better left unknown!

We ALL have lessons we have to learn in this lifetime, and all the mystical wisdom in the multiverse can’t save us from that. At times, psychic intel can help us make decisions that can change certain factors and situations, but if it’s a lesson we have to learn, the essence of the lesson will most assuredly pop up again, just in another form. 

Psychic Work, at it’s Best, is Transformative

That’s where psychic work can be truly transformative, because it can help us understand the intricacies of our lessons so that we can improve ourselves and grow by leaps and bounds. 

Being psychic and intuitive can help us to be omniscient in many ways. However, for true and deep guidance, it helps to intuitively seek answers from sources greater than ourselves. I love channeling for that reason, and I also love reading the iChing oracle. In times when great insight is needed, they both provide such a wellspring of wisdom that it can sometimes be overwhelming. With the iChing, for example, it’s like you’re talking to a wise noble Yoda-type being who is giving you guidance and advice. You just have to be willing to listen and learn.

We are all here to strive towards enlightenment. As long as we are on the path of being understanding, loving, and kind, we’re on the right track. That involves being good to ourselves, too, knowing that we all struggle, no matter how intuitive we are.

I hope this makes sense and helps!

Thanks so much for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

I’ve thought about this week’s message for many years now. And it’s this: one of the most incredibly powerful ways you can relate to the people in your life is by…

Looking at them with a Sense of Understanding and Acceptance.

Why? Because it is both therapeutic, and spiritually aligned. While love is, of course, a very strong vibration, sometimes it’s hard to continuously emit a frequency of unconditional love. It’s easier to look at someone and try to understand where they are coming from, why they behave the way they do, and then to accept them just the way they are.

Many of the issues people have with each other spring forth from the fact that they are unwilling to understand and to get why they are they way they are…and then to be OK with it and accept it.

It Works with Family, too!

Understanding and acceptance is especially helpful when it comes to people within our family, and/or at work. People who rub us the wrong way and irk us, making us feel like ARGH!!! can really test our merit. A way around feeling like that is to look into what others have been through, and to deeply try and understand the whole genesis of who they are, inside and out.

As an example, some people are suffering with legitimate chemical imbalances in the brain. They look fine and “normal,” but they are not, because they are dealing with a very challenging health problem. Many people dealing with this face their own feelings of immense guilt and shame. On top of that, others in their life accuse them of being down in the doldrums, or not like everyone else.

I thought of talking about this in this video because a couple of beautiful souls came to me for readings recently who are dealing with this exact ailment. If their loved ones only knew and understood that they have legitimate physiological issues, they might find it easier to simply “be” in life.

Employ Your Intuition with this One.

A very helpful and useful way to use your intuition is to figure out what makes people tick so that you can understand why they are the way they are. You can’t change them; you can only change yourself, and, as they say, knowledge is power.

Being an understanding and accepting person is such a wonderful way to be. It’s definitely peaceful and creates more harmony in your life. It lets you let go!  

And to be on the receiving end of that, to be understood and accepted, is priceless. I love being around friends who completely get me. I can be myself. I am seen. I am understood. I am accepted. 

People who accept you can literally save your life…they make you feel like you are OK, and that you are fine just the way you are. It’s so healing and feels SO GOOD!

That’s all for this week! Thanks so much for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

Hallo!

If you’re working on your psychic and intuitive development and want to make a go of it as a professional, I have some sage words of advice:

If you are sensitive, AVOID doing readings at psychic fairs and parties!

It makes sense and goes along with the business model of doing demo (paid or unpaid) readings for lots and lots people in a party/fair setting. After all, the more people who know who you are, the better, right?

Maybe…and then again, maybe not.

You see, from my experience, these types of events can be detrimental to your psyche, your chakras and aura, and your body. Now, some people are naturally good at seeing tons of people, one right after the other, and go through them like a powerhouse. I wish I was like that, but I’m not! Rather, I’m the one who did too many of these, fried my circuits a few times, got vehemently ill one time, fought off attachments, and am here to tell you, dear soul, that there has to be a better way.

Doing psychic work is not for the faint of heart and frankly can be very taxing on the HSP (Highly Sensitive Person). Couple that with doing readings for anywhere between 10 and 20 people, one right after the other, some of them drinking, some of them angry, and you’re setting yourself up for a major drain.

Although many people will tell you to simply activate a shield, I’ve seen from experience that creating a shield takes as much work as it does to channel energy and do a reading for someone. It take focus and dedication. You don’t just throw up a shield and call it a day.

Likewise, there are tools like crystals, stones, sage, palo santo, cedar wood, other essential oils, copper mats, iron rings, singing bowls, tuning forks, glasses of water and more that are purported to help you deflect the energy of others. They are fun to work with, but for the HSP, they simply can’t help when you’re in a situation where you are doing too many readings. You may be fine, up to a certain point – then someone comes in who is an energy vampire or a host to a gnarly attachment, or perhaps furious with you because you accidentally saw something a little too “real” for a party session…and you’re toast.

If you really want to bust your chops and get the experience, by all means do this – but reserve the next day for self-care. Don’t talk to anyone, drink a lot of water and tea, take baths, meditate and read books or watch Netflix.

Time out and meditation, running your own energy and calling in the forces of light are imperative if you want to stay strong, healthy, and unaffected by people you’re reading. There’s little opportunity for this in psychic fair/party environments. Yet, again, I know it’s an important step and way of getting your name out there. If you do want to do it, just pace yourself, try to do no more than 8 readings, and take breaks to recharge.

The psychic world can be dangerous; it’s like a walk in a park that has a nice playground, beautiful trees, a field and a lovely lake or river, and then an area way over there you should stay away from because there are drug dealers and hoodlums. Don’t play in that zone!

Stay in the light, and cultivate light. It takes daily work, and a level of intensity that I now know is imperative to your survival.

I hope this sheds some light on the matter. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

I’ve heard a lot of buzz about spiritual awakening over the years, and the reason I made the above video is that someone asked me how long it took for me to awaken. Just as we have the whole ascension process, which involves shifts and upgrades in energy, the spiritual awakening process is definitely a “THING” that happens…but it doesn’t necessarily coincide with a linear timeframe. In fact, if you look at life as a study in evolution, a spiritual awakening can take a lifetime to happen…in layers and layers…and that’s a good thing!

The spiritual awakening process starts with a change, or a feeling, or the sense of being drawn to a particular practice. For some people, a mastery over a practice, or an intentional shift to a higher vibration, is just the starting point to a path that leads to even deeper understandings and awakenings at different levels. It’s not a one-size-fits-all approach, nor does it mean that once you’ve started on the path of spiritual awakening that you have figured it all out. Even the most celebrated and worshipped spiritual teachers have not figured it all out…and I digress into a little speech about that in the video above.

Because we are all unique and different, awakenings happen in different ways for different people. Some find a surge of information and energy so powerful that they can’t ignore it….and it propels them into an entirely new direction in their life. It’s like – BAM! WAKE UP!!! For others, it’s a gentle, slow process that eventually heals limiting beliefs and/or painful emotional wounds, and changes the person on a very powerful and sometimes subtle level.

For some, a spiritual awakening encourages (or forces) dramatic changes that aren’t easy. For others, spiritual awakening is gentle, healing, and therapeutic. However, my whole point in talking about this is from the framework of timing, and the amount of time it takes to awaken. And to that end, I’ll reiterate – it can take a lifetime if you’re dedicated to going with the flow. There is so much to learn, know, and understand not only about ourselves and our relationships, but also about the worlds we live in – both seen and unseen. In fact, forget taking ONE lifetime…the true process can take many, many lifetimes, until we complete the cycle of samsara and go wherever we’re meant to go after that, or melt into the great one-ness. 🙂

It’s at times both simple and yet incredibly complex!!! The most important thing to remember, though, is that it’s doesn’t have to be serious or hard. Spiritual awakening essentially leads you into unconditional love and bliss, so why not set the intention to let the energy of that flow while you are unfolding and awakening? You can! And it will make the process…dare I say…FUN!!!

Thanks for reading and watching! And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out! 🙂

 

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