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A viewer recently asked me if there is such a thing as getting too many readings. She was concerned about a potential relationship and asked if she could screw up the outcome by asking about it too frequently.

The answer is YES! You really can get too many readings. Especially if you are super into a person and are asking about a potential romantic outcome.

We are all made of energy, and when you open the space with a reader to tune into someone, they FEEL it. Whether they are consciously aware of it or not, at some level, they sense this. And if they are unsure about you or feel that they are being pulled towards you against their conscious will, they absolutely will retreat. If you pull back, however, they are more likely to come forward of their own volition.

The same goes for any type of reading. You can really muddy the waters and make things more confusing if you get too many readings regarding the same topic. It’s best to ask, wait for some time, maybe do the work you need to do, and then check in down the line.

There isn’t a specific rule of thumb here regarding how often is too often. You could check in on something once a month perhaps, or once every 6 months. If you keep asking and don’t like the answers or just feel confused, that’s a sure sign it’s time to give the readings a rest.

Have you ever been in a situation where you felt you were getting (or giving) too many readings on a certain topic? How did it get resolved?

Thanks so much for reading and watching, and I’ll see you next time!

When we are consulting intuitively, or with cards or another divination tool, the question plays a huge part in determining the info that comes through. Whether we’re getting a reading from someone else, or we’re learning to do readings for others, the questions we ask are critical!

Here are the types of questions that don’t help:

  • Vague
  • Too open-ended
  • Q’s that are like “should I do this” or “should I do that”

And here are the types of questions that are better:

  • Laser-specific
  • Clear and concise
  • Q’s that are like “Will I be happy, safe, etc. if I do XYZ” or “Is it in my best interest to…”

Questions that are vague get results and answers that are vague.

The Caveat

Of course, there’s a flip side to all of this. With the questions that are so laser-specific, we’re taking a risk and assuming the conditions we are asking about are going to remain the same. We are only able to see things from a limited perspective, the scope of life as we know it here and now.

The thing is, things can change. The seemingly impossible can become possible – and quickly, at that. By only asking within the framework of what we know, we are also limiting our understanding of the possibilities as far as answers/outcomes are concerned.

From No Job to the Perfect Job 

Here’s a classic example of that. A long time ago, while I was learning to do readings, I was unemployed. I didn’t want another marketing job, and I simply didn’t know how to get work doing readings. I asked an intuitive about it, and she told me to try and find legit work doing readings. She said doors would open, and something good was going to happen. At the time I had NO IDEA what she was talking about. There wasn’t a single place around where I could work doing readings. But sure enough, a place actually just opened up a month or so later, and they hired me to do professional readings and teach classes there!

It was amazing how that happened. At the time I was asking, I simply could not see it. Now I understand.

Just hold that concept in your mind while you are getting a reading, while you’re doing one for someone else, or asking for yourself. Be clear, but be open to the unexpected, and do not be afraid of it! The universe, and God, truly does work in mysterious ways.

I know from experience the more you ask and work with your intuition, the more the aperture opens and you understand about the ebbs and flows and cycles of your own path in life. It’s pretty incredible. And it helps to guide you in so many ways.

Thanks so much for reading and watching!

You might be surprised to hear me say this, considering I do intuitive sessions for people for a living, but there IS such a thing as getting too many readings! Now, this is different from consistently working with someone to get through a difficult period in one’s life, or to heal something you are working on. What I’m talking about is that there are people who spend thousands of dollars on psychic hotlines and go to intuitives way more often than necessary, asking surface questions about people and situations, but not going deeper. When you are working on something with an intuitive/energy practitioner, like when you’re working on an issue as you would with a therapist, that’s different, and is fine, and healthy.

But if one is just going to psychics and asking the same question over and over or the same question in a different way, not working through the core issue but repeatedly asking nonconstructive questions, the situation can become really unhelpful and perhaps even more confusing than it needs to be. Essentially, it’s not good to go to someone or to a bunch of people for readings too often unless your focus is more along the lines of “how can I shift, heal, transform, and move the energy to live my highest truth and to evolve and grow.”

Repeatedly going to psychics/intuitives for surface readings can become addictive, sort of like gambling. In addition to that, you might start receiving confusing information or muddled up intel that doesn’t help you at all.

The easiest way I can explain this is through the iChing, which is an oracular book that I use for myself when I have questions and don’t want to sit down and be clairvoyant. The iChing is called the book of changes, and it helps you navigate your way through the constant changes in life. When you sit down to consult the iChing, you are asking the spirits and guides of the oracle to help you through a situation, to provide guidance and insight.

And here’s the funny thing! The iChing is so helpful and soothing when you desperately need help, but when you are asking repetitive questions of a non-helpful nature, it literally sasses you and is like no no no, that’s not the way! Listen, why don’t you ask it in a better way? There are passages in the iChing that literally tell you “Ask once, okay. Ask twice, fine. Ask a third time? Trap! The way closes!” or that tell you that you are muddying the waters by asking too much. And I’ve worked with the iChing so often now that these answers are really tuned in to where I am with what I’m asking – it’s seriously profound and incredible how it works.

If you ask a question that helps to you heal and transform, the iChing will encourage you to keep following that line of questioning, by saying that the spirits will help you through it and it’s important that you understand the situation.

So, to recap what I’m trying to illustrate here, the iChing oracle (which is older than the bible, by the way!) will:

a) Scold you for asking petty questions
b) Encourage you to ask deeper, more transformative and probing questions

So if, for example, someone keeps calling psychics to ask what a guy is thinking about them, and the guy is really not the best person for them in any way, nor is he interested in a relationship, a more healing and productive way to approach the situation would be to look at how to break the cycle of being attracted to the wrong men, how to repair the self-esteem, and how to then attract in an ideal partner. Does that make sense?

When you are in a reading, and/or you find that you are getting too many readings asking the same types of surface questions, you also want to be careful not to give your power away. We ALL have the power to be intuitive and psychic! And it’s so empowering to be able to be your own oracle. Of course, we also all need guidance and/or confirmation from a trusted advisor now and again, especially when we are really close to a situation and it’s hard to see the forest for the trees. In cases like that, it can be wonderfully healing to work with an intuitive and energy healer you know you can trust. And it’s fine to go often if you need to! Just don’t get readings every single day. Let the answers sink in so that you can continue to heal and move forward on your path.

I hope that helps and makes sense! Thanks for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!

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