There’s a common default method when it comes to getting readings. That default is to subconsciously give power away to the person who provides information in a reading.
Many people seek intuitive insights out of fear. This isn’t a criticism; uncertainty is frightening! But when that “need to know” energy is prevalent, it’s a sign that there’s an undercurrent of fear. When we go to someone with this fearful attitude, we are giving them the power to dictate “how it’s going to be.”
If the person giving the reading isn’t coming from a place of empowerment, it creates a tense and sometimes negative situation. This isn’t what getting a reading should be like! The whole point of seeking intuitive guidance is to help you feel empowered and to bring you back to center.
As an example, in the video above I talk about a client who had been told by an astrologer that she would never get married, and there was nothing she could do about it. This sent her into such a tailspin that she started going to all kinds of psychics and intuitives trying to figure the issue out, pleading for someone to predict something better.
In a reading space, the ideal approach is based on questions like “What can I do to be the best version of myself?” or “How can I approach this situation?” as opposed to “What’s going to happen?” Working from this reference point brings the energy back to the self, where it belongs.
It’s human nature to be fearful of the unknown. The world still believes professional intuitives have gifts and powers. But they don’t have anything you don’t have within yourself! You have gifts. You have powers. You can trust your own intuition to navigate life.
It’s great to seek intuitive guidance, but from the perspective of solving a math equation or figuring something out. Never from a place of giving them the power to make decrees that you may not be in alignment with.
Have you had the experience of feeling like you were giving your power away in a reading? How did you resolve this?
Thanks so much for reading and watching, and I’ll see you next time.