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This week’s video is about perpetuating the victim mindset within ourselves, which is something I’ve been working on healing with clients and myself a lot lately.
This week’s video is about perpetuating the victim mindset within ourselves, which is something I’ve been working on healing with clients and myself a lot lately.
The Inner Victim Archetype
Victim is such a harsh word that I really don’t like saying it, especially when it pertains to those of us who have gone through terrible things. When we experience extreme difficulty, especially during our formative years, that’s what we start to think life is like. It’s very hard to get out of it and see that it doesn’t have to be like that. When we are perpetuating our own inner victim archetypes, it means we are continuing to live through the lens of being a victim, even when the major storms have already passed through the landscapes of our life.
The thing is, when we get beaten down, we can get used to life being crappy and things going the wrong way. And then what do we tend to do? We close ourselves off and shut ourselves down to new experiences that might show us that life isn’t necessarily always going to be the same as it has been.
Don’t Close Yourself Off!
A classic example of this that comes up a lot in readings is when clients have bad experiences with dating people, encountering players, cheaters, sociopaths, you name it. It can be so challenging that some just say they’re done and call it a day. This also comes up with jobs and making money. Many of us just don’t take chances or work on change because of the very strong and real fear that we will get ruined in the process. But when we close ourselves off, we don’t get to experience that pivotal turning point where things start to get better.
Working from the Heart Center
Recently I’ve been reading a book called Soul Loveby Sanaya Roman and Orin. It teaches you how to open up your heart center, and the process is incredible. I initially closed a good deal of my heart chakra when my mom died of cancer many years ago; watching her suffer was horrendous. This book is gently teaching me how to activate the heart and release the fear. I highly recommend it. And if you are an empath like I am, I would say it’s a must-read!
Life is Always Changing.
I do channeling work every day as a part of my spiritual practice, and the messages I am getting for myself are pretty much “Listen, stop with the suffering, stop feeling like you’re always going to suffer, life is changing!” You see, if suffering becomes a habit, we can lower our expectations to the point where we don’t expect to get anything good. I’m not saying I’m like that all the time, but I have my moments, as I am sure you do.
I’ve worked with people from all over the world, and all walks of life. I have been with them through their darkest hours, moments where they are sobbing, telling me they don’t want to live, that they are pushed to the limits of what they can handle. But then things change. Shifts take place. Patterns stop and cycles end. Lives turn around completely and get much, much better – sometimes within a very short period of time.
We never know from one day to the next when things are going to change for the better. Our entire lives can change, and it’s bound to happen if we keep anticipating it.
If You Need a Miracle: ANGELS.
One final note: if you are in a really bad place, there is nothing more powerful than calling on the angels. They DO come when you call on them. They hear you and they will help you. They’ll help you get out of bed, to not give up, they will comfort you and they will help bring in the light. They will help bring good things to heal your heart and lift your spirit. I’ve seen it happen time and time again with clients and students and from first hand experience. They are very powerful. You are not alone, and you don’t have to keep suffering.
Phew! Heavy topic this week. Well, that’s all for now! Thanks so much for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!