The Power of Correcting Your Flaws [Personal Growth]

A lot of us who are into psychic development are also interested in working on ourselves. We’re on the path of transforming into better versions of who we are. A lot of that means healing wounds from the past and forgiving people who’ve hurt us. It also means understanding why we go through things, seeing patterns, and healing them. Ultimately, our goal is to move into a place in life where things are easier, happier, and more peaceful & authentic.

Personal transformation through healing our flaws

One of the things I’ve personally found useful in this is to see where we are flawed, and to work to adjust that. Few of us like to think about the aspects of ourselves that are unpleasant, but it’s a great place to transform.

Here’s a personal example of that. A while ago, I worked with a wonderful energy healer. He very gently told me that I am always pushing, pushing, pushing, holding on to hard and forcing my way through life. He pointed out that I tend to make things harder for myself than I need to.

He was right! Since my very conception, I’ve been fighting my way through life. As I was growing in my mother’s womb, I was in an environment of cancer. She found out the she was pregnant and that she had cancer on the same day. It was Hodgkin’s Lymphoma, a dangerous and aggressive cancer that coursed through her lymphatic system as I was growing inside. I was a miracle baby. They told her it was madness to try and carry a child to term under those conditions.

My expectation that life is difficult is based on my personal experiences, but it also holds me back. It creates too much stress. And, I was starting to create a chip on my shoulder! I am a Pisces, a natural dreamer whose ideal state is one of relaxation and gentle flow. When I’m out of alignment with that, my body feels it, too, and stress symptoms like TMJ and elevated cortisol start popping up.

The Healing Process

Now that I’m aware of what I’m doing, I’m working to shift it. I’m more mindful of my thoughts, and actively look at ways I can relax and make things easier. I’m starting to delegate at home. My son is 8 years old now, and I don’t have to wait on him hand and foot. He can get his own sparkling water from the fridge, and open the blinds. It’s good, and it gives him something to do that builds his confidence. I’m also working on asking for help when I need it. It’s different, but I’m learning to figure it out.

Whatever character trait you have that is flawed can easily be worked on. It doesn’t have to be challenging. The whole goal is to make life easier and happier for yourself. And dropping patterns that aren’t healthy, or that make things harder for yourself, will pay off tenfold. Ultimately, bringing flaws to the surface and working to transform them will only make life more enjoyable.

I hope that makes sense. Thanks so much for reading and watching!