How to Heal when You’ve been Ghosted

I have something to share with you that might surprise you: one of the major reasons people book sessions with me and other intuitives is to get the closure that another person won’t give them. 

In fact, this situation has been so prevalent over the years that I created an entire immersive program to help people heal from it. It’s called Get Him Off Your Mind,and I developed it solely for women who are caught up in this common situation of obsessing over a guy and having a hard time getting him out of their system. I have to apologize to the men out there who are having this issue as well. I know you go through it too, but the majority of people who seek advice from me are women, so I catered the program to this particular situation/dynamic.

OMG Ghosting…Really?

Clients tell me time and time again that guys just fall off the face of the planet, ghost, disappear, and never call or text again. This happens after one date, 3 months of dating, and longer than that. It happens across the spectrum with different age groups. As an intuitive empath, I’m devastated by the fact that after having an intense, passionate encounter or relationship with someone, someone can just disappear. I’ve seen how difficult it can be for clients to be on the receiving, or rather non-receiving, end of this. 

He just…Can’t.

I will say that in most cases, these men just don’t want to have a conversation. It’s easier to disappear than to talk, let you down, see you get angry or know they made you cry. Sad but true. 

A woman’s typical first reaction is to try to get that the man to communicate and say something, to just be honest, upfront, to communicate. Especially if the woman is spiritually evolved and knows how to “talk it out.” 

A lot of women want to write, too. They can easily craft long letters and text messages about things and send them to the men who are acting up. The majority of the time, though, that doesn’t get them what they need. Their lengthy messages will garner a non-response, or a B.S. response that doesn’t answer anything. 

2 Ways to Heal from Being Ghosted

With that in mind, here are 2 ways to help you get closure when the guy won’t give it to you:

TIP 1:

Go ahead and write out everything you’re feeling! Get everything out of your system. Write every day for a week, purge it all, and do NOT send it to the guy. You will likely not get a response! When you are through with everything, and I mean EVERYTHING, go ahead and burn it all up and release it. Get witchy and do a sacred ceremony, releasing that energy when the moon is waning. This is the perfect planetary time to get things out of your life once and for all.  

You will feel a difference…at least you are able to DO SOMETHING! There is great power and magic in ceremonial practices like this. Release the pain, let go of the burden, and most importantly, release his hold over you. 

TIP 2:

Listen to the free grounding and centering meditation on my website. It’s amazing, and I do it before every session. Next, while you are still in that mediative space, call in the spirit of the other person and have a conversation with him. Say everything you need to say. Get it all out!  This is an energetic exchange, and doing the grounding mediation first primes you to enter into the intuitive realm. 

What is important to do after this is to say “I forgive you, I release you, and I thank you for leaving my life, with love and gratitude. Our karmic agreement is done.”

Then, you can imagine you’re breaking agreement sticks that bound you together, and burn them in the violet flame that transmutes and heals all energy. 

These may seem like simple techniques, but they are indeed very powerful. You will notice a difference! He might just contact you out of the blue after this, so be prepared, and be strong.

And for more information on the Get Him off Your Mind program, click here. 

That’s all for this week! Thanks so much for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!