In many cases, we think we want something, but when it comes down to it, we can’t allow ourselves to have it.
The Havingness Gauge
In clairvoyance, we work with what is called a “havingness gauge.” The gauge shows how much you can allow yourself to have or experience something. It goes from 0 to 100, and more often than not, when I’m working with people to clear blocks, their gauge is rarely at the 100% mark. Many times it’s hovering down at 40% or less. Why? Because they’re creating limitations for themselves!
That said, here are some steps to get in the mode of creating the things and experiences you’d love to have.
Step 1: Know that You’re Creating Limitations
Just KNOW that for whatever reason, you may be deciding not to let yourself have or experience things. All you have to do here is acknowledge it and realize it – that’s it!
Step 2: Let Yourself Dream
Knowing that you’re probably limiting yourself, now just push yourself to think more about what you want in life. Take your time on this and don’t rush it, but be diligent in letting your desires spring forth. And document them. Employ your imagination! Go wild and let it percolate while taking notes on a daily basis, for as long as you’d like. This is a magical, alchemical process. Enjoy it!!
Step 3: Ask for More
In your mediations or daily affirmations or statements to all that is, ask the universe to bring you more! Many manifesting rituals involve asking for what you want, or for whatever is for your highest good. What the universe may bring you can be very different than what you have in mind – but it can also be unbelievably amazing. Better, in fact, than you could have imagined. Really and truly!
Step 4: Give, Give, Give
Definitely make sure that you are able to give. Give freely! Give of yourself, give of your time, your possessions, give things away, give love! Give to people, plants, animals. When you give, you open up space to receive. And giving is so much fun!
Step 5: Receive
Now that you are giving, be open to receive, too! Often we don’t let good things come into our lives. We can’t accept gifts or generous gestures from other people. If you are giving, however, you must be open to receive, because it will come back to you and you want to keep that flow open. It creates a beautiful balance! And keeping the balance of giving and receiving is important when it comes to creating what you want in life.
Can You Handle How Good it Can Be?
I recently watched Queer Eye on Netflix because my friend said it was happy and heartwarming. And she was right! One episode in particular got me emotional. These sisters who had a barbecue stand were getting a makeover. One of them had such bad teeth that she could never really smile – and she had such a fun, bright personality!
The team brought her to a dentist to get her teeth fixed, and one of them held her hand throughout the procedure. When it was over, she looked in the mirror and was shocked. And then she just started sobbing. As did I!!!! She looked beautiful! It was so overwhelming. Can you imagine how that feels? To finally have something you never thought you could have? To be able to smile openly and feely, to laugh out loud, and to be beautiful, after feeling embarrassed for all these years….it was one of the most touching things I’ve ever seen.
That is how good things can be if you relax and allow!
We tend to grab onto things and hold on and need life to be a certain way. That tightness creates a restriction in the flow of energy, though. When we operate on a frequency of peace and harmony and joy…good things will start coming in more and more. And little by little, your life as you know it will change. It can and does work!
Thank you for reading and watching. And remember, if there’s anything in your life that you would like assistance with, I’m here to help with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out!