Dating Tips for Empathic Women

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From what I hear from wonderful, beautiful clients like YOU on a near daily basis is that it’s a jungle out there on the dating scene. With apps and services like Tinder, Bumble, Match, and all sorts of other things, you’d think it’d be easier…but that’s not always the case.

And for super sensitive, empathic women, it’s even harder. You connect with people on a deeper level, with an open and accepting heart, and you aren’t wired to be mean or closed off. Every new person you date could be your future husband – that’s how you operate.

So how do you cope with dating when many men are just on the prowl, regardless of what they tell you or how they present themselves?

In the video above, I offer a few tips aimed to help – but it goes many layers deeper than this and if you want me to talk more about this kind of thing (especially how to trust your intuition when it comes to men), I’d be thrilled to – please just let me know. 

To sum it up, when you’re dating guys, try thinking of them as job applicants. Don’t get caught up with hoping they like you, especially if they don’t have all of the qualities you’re looking for. Don’t make concessions so early on in the game. I see so many women who do this, and it does them a disservice. It’s heartbreaking. And here’s some old school advice from my inner Grandma: if you really like them and want to date them, don’t sleep with them right away – you’ll create cords of attachment that will be hard for you to get rid of if it doesn’t work out.

Remember, I’m also here to do readings, healings, and spiritual coaching – so don’t hesitate to contact me for a session at ask@krishanti.com.


Well, all planets have moved direct now, which means things should be shifting and we might all be collectively feeling at least slightly better these days.

In this week’s video, I chat about 3 ways you can get a guy off your mind. After I learned how to do readings and energy healings, I worked at a healing center in Los Angeles, and nearly every single woman who came in for a session had a question about how to stop obsessing over a guy. The problem was so prevalent that I created a program to help with it – Get Him Off Your Mind in 28 Days.

Having a crush on someone is fun, and totally normal. But when you really start to get into someone and then that person doesn’t reciprocate – like when you had what you thought was a great date and then you never hear from him again…or when you sleep with him and then he tells you he’s not ready for a relationship…or when you’re texting like crazy and then he just falls off the face of the earth…things can feel pretty ugly.

Women are beginning to reclaim our power, but old patterns die hard. This video just briefly talks about 3 ways to get him off your mind, but the bigger picture is about how and why we feel we need men to complete us, or why we imagine them to be waaaaay better than they really are.

If you are in this situation or ever have been, I hope this video helps. And if you know someone in this situation, please forward it to them.

Remember, I’m also here to do readings, healings, and spiritual coaching – so don’t hesitate to contact me for a session at ask@krishanti.com.


If you, like many other people, are just not feeling the Happy New Year vibes, THAT’S OK. I feel like I am stumbling into 2017, and from what I’ve been hearing from friends and clients, it’s not an uncommon thing that’s happening right now.

This year, 2017, is a 1 year in numerology. That means last year, 2016, was a 9, which marks the end of a major cycle. And when a major cycle like that ends, it’s not always with sunshine and rainbows and joy and hope. It can be incredibly painful and difficult, as it takes time for the old energy to cycle out so the new energy can start up.

Which means, if you’re not off to 2017 with a bang, just hang in there, because things will improve. It might just take time: for some, it will be weeks, and for others, a couple of months. But it will turn around.

In the mean time, you can do some clearing: clear your energy, clear your home or office space, clear your diet, clear your mind, clear your life. In fact, I’m taking an energy clearing course right now that is helping me transform old, outdated energy. It’s amazing how much lies beneath the surface!

The video above is a bookcase chat about some common misperceptions regarding psychic abilities. If you need a distraction, I hope you find it interesting!

And if you need some help, guidance, or hope, just reach out to me for a session or package. We can clear your energy, help you get guidance on where you’re going, and transform old stuff so that you can move forward with more strength, clarity, and positive energy. For more info on the types of sessions and packages you can choose from, click here.


Sorry about the weird lighting in this video! I am not a pro at this, and re-recorded it a few times and then monkeyed with it in iMovie and then just said to heck with it, I love the dress and I think I said what I was trying to say. Hopefully the light will be better next time.

So, on to the topic! If you are learning how to be psychic and clairvoyant or just more intuitive, at some point or another you will probably do readings for others. Typically, it starts with you doing readings for supportive friends and family and maybe co-workers. Then, if you want to do more, you might launch out and do readings for (EEK!) strangers.

Regardless of who you’re being intuitive for, here is a HUGE tip regarding this:

You can’t rely on the person you’re reading to give you accurate and reliable information regarding whether or not what you are picking up on is correct.

That might sound nuts, but it’s true! There are many people who will be wonderful, and so supportive, and totally tuned in and really on the same wavelength as you. The readings you do with them will be out of this world.

But there will also be other people who are either lost, confused, or in a different kind of space, one in which they can’t validate what you are saying at the present moment or give you feedback.

That’s why, in most psychic schools and intuitive development training programs like the one I do, the person getting the reading is not allowed to give feedback to the reader until the very end.

Of course, as a reader, you want to know if you’re on point or not. Who wouldn’t!? And if you are drawn to do this work in some form or another, there is a reason for it, no matter how challenging it might be to venture out and do readings for others. I’m just bringing this up for you right now so that you know, some people won’t get what you are saying until weeks, months, or years later (if ever). And if you are sojourning into the future to see what you can pick up about what might happen, you can’t rely on every person to remember what you said, to recognize it when it happens, and then to report back to you after the fact.

Doing readings is an amazing way to help others, to connect to universal guidance for yourself, and to help raise your consciousness. In the end, it’s not so much about right or wrong or predicting this or that or the other. That’s where a lot of people misunderstand the intuitive process. In the highest form, a reading will offer clarity, support, healing (clairvoyant readings in their purest form are simultaneous energy healings), and love. It will help people understand things, and it will help them to heal and to feel better about life.

So whether you’re playing with friends and family and yourself, or venturing into doing readings as a pro, just remember this and it will definitely help!

And here’s another easy tip: just keep practicing and playing with yourself and your supportive friends and family, and you will find that you will become more and more psychic and intuitive the more you do it. Make it FUN and playful! And keep notes, and let yourself be amazed and inspired by your insights. I guarantee you, you can’t go wrong with this if you keep at it!


When I learned how to be psychic, I was super jazzed and excited about being able to google the universe for answers to help people. I had no idea that the NUMBER ONE thing they’d be asking for help with was romantic relationships. Now I know, and now you know – it’s the NUMBER ONE THING people want to know about!

Of course that makes sense. We all want to love and to be loved.

So here’s a little secret for you: when people ask me what is standing in the way of them meeting someone, one of the most interesting and common things I see is that, in some way or another, they are projecting the energy of FEAR rather than the energy of HOPE. It’s like they’re afraid they’ll bring in the wrong person, or someone they don’t find attractive, or someone awful, or someone who will hurt them.

But that fear is exactly what blocks them from magnetizing the ideal person in. And I get the fear, I mean really, so many people have been completely hurt by others, and the dating scene from what I hear can be BRUTAL. Especially online dating. And then there’s the texting. And the men who disappear without a trace. I hear a lot about that and it’s awful. So I GET IT!!!! And yet, approaching it all from a place of fear is just what brings in more of it. But hope, on the other hand, changes all of that.

Hope can be hard to muster, especially in the face of adversity, but you have every reason to have hope, and to trust that you will find the right person for you. If you want it, I promise you, you will have it. Ask and it is given, remember? It’s true!!!

With billions and billions of people on the planet right now, and the ability to travel and go anywhere you want, there isn’t any reason why you wouldn’t meet someone. It was only in the olden days, only for your ancestors, that the pool was very limited and choices few and far between. Sometimes we can’t help but carry the genetic imprint of that fear and limitation with us, but the mere knowledge that it’s there can help you heal and release it, and get back to having hope, which changes everything.


The other day, someone asked me how knowing about past lives can help you heal – like what’s the point? And I thought it would make an interesting topic to chat about.

Some people do not believe in reincarnation, and we are certainly all entitled to our beliefs. There’s room for everything. I, for one, find great comfort in knowing there is a cycle to things and that the spirit lives on outside of the physical body, so I love believing in reincarnation.

From my experience personally and with clients, knowledge about past lives can help you understand where you’ve been, with whom, and why. That knowledge can help you have a deeper sense of WHO YOU ARE and what your mission is. It can help you understand why you have certain problems, why you love certain people and places, what karma/dharma you need to work on in this lifetime, and how you can do it.

Through my own personal past life healing, I have discovered much more about who I really am and the relationships I have with others. I’d love to prattle on about it all, but I don’t want to bore you. However I do just have to mention that I was thrilled to discover recently that my best friend from high school and I were twins in a past life! We both love to dress up and we still wear the same size all these years later and little thumbnail photos of me totally look like her. It all makes sense to both of us now.

If you are interested in learning more about your true spirit, the nature of your soul, and why you are here, past life work is a wonderful and FUN thing to do. And how to do it? You can start with Brain Weiss’s book, Many Lives, Many Masters. He also has another book called Only Love is Real that I like a lot, too. There are some great past life regression meditations you can do, and you can also work with a hypnotherapist to discover more. That’s how I initially discovered that my mother in this lifetime had been my brother in a past life – no wonder I always used to wish I had been a kid when she was a kid so we could have played together all day long.

On a deeper level, the first truly healing clairvoyant reading I ever had (purchased for me by my above-mentioned best friend from high school), revealed that I had been a sage in India many many years ago. Hearing that truth was like breathing deeply for the first time ever. The energy in the room literally shifted when that came through and we were all FLOORED by how powerful it was (two people were doing the reading). And that reading literally changed my life.

You are so much more than your personality in this lifetime. And knowing who you are on that deep soul level can only help you heal and grow even more.

My 4 year-old son Ivan said something profound recently:

“When people get old, they go back into heaven, and they start to get back into being a baby again. They go around and around and around.”

From the mouths of babes! LOL!


Have you ever found yourself in a negative pattern or cycle? Usually the realization that a pattern or cycle is taking effect begins with: “Why does this KEEP HAPPENING TO ME!?”

And usually these negative patterns and cycles are pretty huge and uncomfortable. From being in terrible jobs, to allowing yourself to be treated in ways you don’t want to be treated, to inadvertently attracting the wrong type of romantic partner, negative patterns and cycles are pretty painful.

The good news is, cycles and patterns can absolutely be broken (if you want them to). The secret is to become aware that a pattern exists, and to understand how and why you are creating that pattern.

From there, you can make peace with yourself and with your pattern by intense self-reflection in whatever form you’re drawn to – through spiritual development, therapy, energy healing, meditation, or any other form of deep inner work. As you know, a myriad of all kinds of therapies are available, and only you know best what will help you at certain times in your life.

Once you break a cycle or pattern, for the most part it will be DONE, however I’ve noticed that sometimes residual energy will show up, kind of like a blip on a radar, before it becomes obsolete. And if you find that does happen, you can also do more work and reflection to clear that up, too.

I’ve noticed in my work with energy healing that you don’t just focus on a problem or issue one time and heal it and make it go away forever; it’s a process, just like you don’t go to the gym one time and lift weights and expect lasting results. Inner work takes focus, determination, and dedication – but the results are beyond worth it.


You Read My Mind!

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Telepathy isn’t Supernatural – it’s SUPER NATURAL!

I know that’s corny – about as corny as the Mac Red lipstick I’m wearing in this video that the girl swore I looked amazing in but now I’m not so sure.

But seriously…not to take the mystery and fun out of it, but telepathy is a natural instinct that all animals have. And since we are essentially animals…we’ve got it too.

I’m busy making new videos in front of the bookcase today so I’ll keep the message short and I hope you like the video!


If you have even the slightest desire to be more psychic or intuitive, you can TOTALLY do it! It’s not rocket science. It just takes time, effort, and practice.

I never in a million years thought I’d even want to be psychic – the thought never once even crossed my mind – but this amazing reading I got by two clairvoyant students changed everything. They helped me to see what was really possible, and set me on the path to discover more. From there, I did a professional intuitive development program, and then did practice readings for two years before I felt good enough to do it for reals. I coined the term “intuitive consultant” because the word psychic immediately made me think of gypsy fortune tellers or people who just give you answers and ask for gold coins to lift curses or make ominous predictions vs. people who offer guidance and insight and connect with your soul, help you heal, and help you see how much power you have, which is more what I do.

We are all capable of tuning into our own intuition and being psychic. It’s not this strange ability that some people have and others don’t. And it’s not really all that weird – it’s incredibly magical, very healing, super helpful, and fun.

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What is Clairvoyance?

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This past weekend we went to an amazing birthday party for Ivan’s 4 year old friend and there was a big fat lizard who changed colors that they were teaching the kids about. He happened to have a little teeny tiny eye on top of his head so he could see birds above who might want to eat him and it made me think of our third eye.

I’ve always thought Clairvoyance was such a funny, old-timey word! I picture Victorian ladies doing séances in candle-lit parlors with lace doilies. But really it’s just a basic ability everyone can tap into (though those who are naturally more visual and imaginative will find it easier to work with). If you’re not so visual, fret now! Your skill will probably be in clairaudience, instant knowing, or just plain old intuition – more videos on that to come, or look for tips and articles on the blog.

I learned how to be psychic, and so for me Clairvoyance is two things. First, basically it’s a method of tapping into your intuition by using your imagination and visualizing pictures that deliver information. If you can read a book and imagine what’s going on in your mind’s eye, you’re using your clairvoyance. Secondly, Clairvoyance is a school of training, a method by which instructors teach students how to use their clairvoyance and do clairvoyant readings and healings. The school that started all of this was the Berkeley Psychic Institute. I learned through the International School of Clairvoyance, founded by my teacher and friend Debra Lynne Katz.

In this video, I talk about clairvoyance, your third eye, and how clairvoyant schools teach you to do readings and healings. If you like this kind of info, please subscribe as I’ll be prattling on about it with new videos every week!