First things first, I know the term “negative people” is a strong one, but it seems to get to the point pretty much. We are all sparks of the divine, but some of us, either throughout our lives, or at different points in our lives, can be a tad negative.

When you start working to raise your vibration and get your energy strong and high, and/or if you are an empath like I am, you will notice people’s energies and you will likely not really want to be around negative people. The most common advice is to just stay away from them or avoid them. But, as Julia (who does energy healing work) said, this isn’t always possible. And she’s right. So I sat down with the Ascended Masters to see what they had to say about coping with negative people.

For the full run-down, check out the video above. In a nutshell though, they said that negative people are in pain, and that you can’t change them unless they want to change. If you can’t avoid them, i.e. if they are your family or they’re a part of your work life, you must keep your vibration as high as possible so that they will either 1) distance themselves from you or 2) be less negative around you. I know that is a lot easier said than done – while writing this out I am totally remembering some unkind gossips from a former workplace – but in any event, raising your vibration is the best thing you can possibly do energy-wise and it will help, so there is no problem in trying it!

Also, here are some steps for dealing with negative people that the Masters outlined:

  • Be neutral
  • Do not excite or anger yourself or them
  • If you cannot avoid them, become transparent
  • Charge yourself with light; bask in light
  • Forgive yourself for anything this stirs up in you
  • Take time to mend and heal after interacting with a negative person

Consistently work to raise your vibration to high levels (what works for me is following guided meditations, exercising, being creative, being outside, listening to great music, laughing, and spending time with people I love) and it will help repel negativity on all fronts. However, even if you do this, you won’t be able to avoid them 100%, because they’re simply a part of life. Unless you live far away from civilization, you will encounter a variety of different energy types.

I hope this helps! And remember, if you need help with connecting to your own intuition or would like guidance in any area of your life, I’m here to do readings, healings, spiritual coaching packages AND one-on-one psychic development training – so don’t hesitate to contact me for a session at ask@krishanti.com.

 


If you read last week’s post, you’ll know I just finished doing The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up. And it led me to make this video, which is all about clothes, your awkward inner child, and how to heal her.

During the “tidying” process, I stumbled upon a photo of myself that only a mother could love. I really did not like the photo in any way.. it wasn’t even funny “Flashback Friday” awkward. It was awful, and it just triggered EACH AND ALL of my ugly-dorky issues. And so, after tearing said photo up and throwing it in the trash, I did a powerful age-regression meditation to heal that sh*t. (click here if you want to buy it from Orin and Sanaya Roman).

And then I got over myself and made some more videos, which I never would have been able to do if not for all of this healing and energy work. In fact, I actually created a program called “Reinvent Your Self-Image” to address just this issue – and it was after designing that program that I was able to get on camera in the first place. Before that? Videos? FORGET IT!!!

Time and time again, I meet with (mostly) women who have the exact same issues that I have. Although we are quite lovely now, an awkward, pimply inner pre-teen wearing off-brand clothing lurks within (typically in the solar plexus chakra), making us feel unattractive, unworthy, and, worst of all, unloveable.

The good news is, the minute we become aware of this, we can begin to heal and transform it. In the second half of the above video, I talk about how to do just that. Age regression meditations, where you go back in time to heal and re-write your past, really help. Working on visualizing yourself as you are now or as you would like to be definitely helps, too – plant that image in your solar plexus chakra with lots of brilliant golden sunlight for maximum effect. And the meditations and exercises in “Reinvent Your Self-Image” are powerful – just do them until you work through the energy. You’ll know when you’ve done it.

I really love clothes, so I talk about it a lot in this video. What has been coming up lately with several clients I’ve met with recently too is hair; beautiful women who are wearing their hair in a way that doesn’t suit them. Not that I am one to talk about hair, as my hair issues are another thing, but let us save that for another day. 😉

I wish you the best of luck in healing and reinventing your self-image. You are not alone in this. And remember, if you need help with connecting to your own intuition or would like guidance in any area of your life, I’m here to do readings, healings, spiritual coaching packages AND one-on-one psychic development training – so don’t hesitate to contact me for a session at ask@krishanti.com.