Fate vs. Free Will: Creating Your Future

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Even though we all know the future is VERY mutable and changeable and NOT set in stone, when it comes to getting readings, it’s one of those things EVERYONE wants to take a sneak peek at. We want an idea of what’s going to happen; we want to know how things are going to turn out. We want to know who is coming and when and where and why and what it’s going to mean and how it’s going to happen.

But as much as we like to believe that we have control over things and can manifest whatever we want in life, however we want it, the sad truth is, some things are not up to us to decide. Some things are it’s just about…

FATE.

That four-letter word we don’t like to think exists (unless it’s tied to something really incredible and amazing).

How we detest the idea of fate!!! We want to be in control; we want things to go the way we want them to.

But we are all here to learn lessons, to go through things, to learn, evolve, and grow. And that means that we have to sometimes wait longer than we want for soul mates to appear. That we have to deal with similar types of situations. That it’s our fate for this to happen or for that to happen.

In the video above, I wax on a bit about fate vs. free will. What’s very intriguing to me that I’ve noticed a lot lately is that you can create different variables related to a situation, but the core lesson will still remain. For instance, you can not marry one person, and then marry another, and have a very similar type of situation occur in that relationship that would have occurred if you’d married the other person. That’s just one example – but there are billions of different potential situations this can be applied to, from the minute to the OMG that is HUGE.

Yes, we do have a certain degree of control in our lives – but we can’t control everything. And that’s where fate comes in. Maybe it’s not such a bad word after all…because who knows what would happen if there wasn’t a higher force setting the stage for life as it unfolds?