I haven’t dated for many moons, but I work with enough women in my practice to have a glimpse into what the reality of it is – not easy and, to put it bluntly, oftentimes not fun.

When women call me for insight into relationships, they’ve already had a gut feeling that leads them to seek out answers. And that gut feeling is always right. So, I made this video to talk about that, and to also say that there is a whole other tricky thing happening when it comes to sociopaths and pathological liars. I have been tricked TWICE in a psychic space by people who are so fully convinced that they are not being duplicitous or lying, that even their souls show me they are being truthful in sessions. It’s a definite psychological disorder, and the level of non-truthfulness runs so very deep that it shifts energy as well.

Let me just tell you this: if you have reason to doubt or speculate about someone you’re dating, and you sense something isn’t right, guess what? It isn’t. It could be something glaringly obvious, or it could be a string of little things that leads you to suspicion. One of my favorite people turned into a Super Sleuth with someone she was dating and, after some effort, got straight to the truth; I am in awe of her diligence and insight. The person she was dating was a pathological liar – one of the two people I mentioned in the video above who tricked me in a session. 🙁

We are hardwired biologically to protect ourselves, so it makes perfect sense that we would have a sense, a feeling, or a knowing that something isn’t right with someone we are dating. Of course, sometimes we get blindsided, especially by those who are so good at covering up the truth that they even trick themselves. However, what I have seen is that more often than not, there are other things that happen to warn us. Maybe your friends don’t like him, or your kids. Kids are excellent judges of character. Friends might not always tell you the truth, but kids will. And parents (even if we don’t want to hear it).

The more you trust your intuition, the more it works for you. But if you find yourself on the sour end of something that has gone wrong, it might also help to know that sometimes we just need to see it to believe it. Like, to stick it out with the person until you find out the hard way. If that has happened or is happening to you, don’t punish yourself for it – just chock it up to experience and do what my Super Sleuth friend did – get a journal and take notes assessing every subsequent person you date until it works out.

We are all in this together, and as women let’s support each other on the path of truth, knowledge, intuition and insight. If there are specific things you want me to cover regarding intuition and dating and getting a read on someone’s energy, please let me know, and I promise you I will work on it.

And if you are interested in healing and transforming your life, remember I’m always here to help, with readings, energy healings, on-demand meditations and my psychic development training program. So just reach out! 🙂


Hi!

A couple of my FAVORITE people in the world are currently single, as are many clients I work with on a daily basis. While meeting someone “organically” is probably the easiest way to go, that doesn’t always happen – hence, your Tinder, Bumble, Match, J-Date, E-Harmony, Plenty of Fish, OK Cupid (which my friend and I called OK Stupid), Christian Mingle, etc etc etc etc etc.

My single friends love Bumble, but find that it’s tedious to sort through the matches, to send the emails or messages, to set up a date, and then to go on said date and be deeply disappointed. And everyone on every other app has said pretty much the same thing. It’s a HASSLE.

So…if you are on these things, why not multi-task and boost your intuition and psychic abilities while going through the catalogue of prospects!?

I realized in this video I was vague about how to do it. I was losing the light of the day and just wanted to get one more video in (I do them in batches) and thought it would be fun to talk about how easy it was to pick up info on these guys on dating apps when I was doing Bumble with my friend Elizabeth. I apologize!

So here’s a more practical, outlined way to do it:

1. Team up with a FUN, intuitive/psychic friend, someone with great energy who isn’t afraid to say what she or he thinks. A friend who is on the same wavelength as you (you can do it alone, but it’s so much more fun with a friend!)

2. Meditate by raising your vibration to the highest level possible, basking in the light…or do my free 15-minute grounding exercise here

3. Start scrolling! Look at the photos and try and pick up the vibe of the person. Laugh and have fun with this. Be sure to read what he says about himself and his life. Naturally, you will weed through those you aren’t interested in. Pay attention to the ones you are into.

4. If you find someone really interesting, make up a story about him. You can do it alone, or have your friend do it.

5. Notice if you feel GOOD or BAD or NEUTRAL about the person. If you feel GOOD, do whatever the next step is. If you feel BAD, pass him over. If you feel NEUTRAL, just let your fingers take over and swipe left or right! 😉 Remember your hands are connected to the healing energy of your heart – and your heart knows what’s best for you!

6. Try to have as many positive prospects as possible so you don’t get stuck on ONE person.

And that’s that. Keep it light and simple, and try not to have any expectations. Be open to being surprised and trust that you are not meant to be alone, that you will find your person.

Let’s shift gears and talk a little bit about feminism and self-love. I created a program called Get Him Off Your Mind, which aims to help women end the cycle of obsession over a guy.

What I have seen time and time again is that we as women have been robbed of our power. We have been weakened. We need to remember how strong we are, how incredible, how magical.

Last week I received a message from a divine feminine energy that my psychic friend identified as the Black Madonna, Kali, Artemis. She showed me a Cardinal Red color and spoke of deep things, including the need for women to love their bodies.

One very intense thing she said was this: the blood of the mother flows through the veins of every mortal on earth. The blood of the mother. The blood of the mother. (she repeated it)

Not the father. Not the blood of Christ through transubstantiation (no offense to JC who I love). The blood of the mother.

So the next time you feel ever so slightly inferior, remember this. You are a women, and the blood of the woman is what fuels humanity. How powerful is that? It’s pretty divine if you ask me.

You are a goddess.

If you ever need help connecting to your divinity, I’m here to do readings, healings, spiritual coaching packages AND one-on-one psychic development training – so don’t hesitate to contact me for a session at ask@krishanti.com.


OK Ladies…I’m tackling a big one here.

The video above is long, and it starts out with some general reasons why men lie and/or fall off the face of the planet. Towards the end, in the last 5-7 minutes or so, I talk about more specific tips and ways you can cope, so if you want to fast forward to that, by all means do.

In the work that I do, I HAVE HEARD IT ALL. Nothing surprises me anymore. And guess what? Many men (and I am sure women too) out there are lying, cheating, and falling off of the face of the planet at an alarming rate. Sometimes, when I’m not feeling centered, I wonder if there are any good ones left. It’s certainly a question many clients ask on an almost daily basis.

To sum it up, men aren’t necessarily lying or falling off the face of the planet to spite and hurt YOU specifically. It’s more about a bigger theme and way in which they have learned how to deal with women, either through their home environment, or from previous relationships.

And how can you cope with it? Whether you were in love with someone who lied to you, cheated, and/or disappeared, or if something was just starting to show promise and then it fell apart, I know it hurts. First, trust that you are not alone. Second, get help – from a friend, therapist, or healer. Third, meditate and blast clearing white light of your spirit merging with God source through the core of your being and out into your aura to clear you of bad vibes and negative effects. If you can talk to the guy, let him know that lying doesn’t work for you. If you can’t, try to get into a place of understanding and forgiveness, so that you can release him and your relationship, and move on with your life.

Together we are strong. And when we put our collective feet down and demand that men treat us with honor and dignity, things will start to change. It might take time…but things will change. They have to.

Remember, I’m also here to do readings, healings, and spiritual coaching – so don’t hesitate to contact me for a session at ask@krishanti.com.


Dating Tips for Empathic Women

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From what I hear from wonderful, beautiful clients like YOU on a near daily basis is that it’s a jungle out there on the dating scene. With apps and services like Tinder, Bumble, Match, and all sorts of other things, you’d think it’d be easier…but that’s not always the case.

And for super sensitive, empathic women, it’s even harder. You connect with people on a deeper level, with an open and accepting heart, and you aren’t wired to be mean or closed off. Every new person you date could be your future husband – that’s how you operate.

So how do you cope with dating when many men are just on the prowl, regardless of what they tell you or how they present themselves?

In the video above, I offer a few tips aimed to help – but it goes many layers deeper than this and if you want me to talk more about this kind of thing (especially how to trust your intuition when it comes to men), I’d be thrilled to – please just let me know. 

To sum it up, when you’re dating guys, try thinking of them as job applicants. Don’t get caught up with hoping they like you, especially if they don’t have all of the qualities you’re looking for. Don’t make concessions so early on in the game. I see so many women who do this, and it does them a disservice. It’s heartbreaking. And here’s some old school advice from my inner Grandma: if you really like them and want to date them, don’t sleep with them right away – you’ll create cords of attachment that will be hard for you to get rid of if it doesn’t work out.

Remember, I’m also here to do readings, healings, and spiritual coaching – so don’t hesitate to contact me for a session at ask@krishanti.com.


Many of the people I work with just SO do not like dating online and I can see why. In almost every session where I’ve looked at that, I’ve seen it as a catalogue that people flip through. Some are worse than others. When one girl asked about guy after guy after guy she’d met on an online dating site, I had to pause and ask her just what it was, because it seemed like they were only there for hook-ups. It was Tinder.

I met my husband many a year ago at 24 Hour Fitness. I got up and went there every day at 6am, because I had an office job where I sat around all day. I noticed that he arrived there every day at 6am, and I thought he was super cute. I began to look for him but I pretended not to see him. And I developed a huge crush on him. I remember I’d get to work in the morning and write emails to my best friends about seeing him and how cute he was. Luckily for me, he was doing the same thing (not emailing friends, but noticing me), and finally, finally, finally! we talked. And the rest is history.

I developed a whole audio workshop with tips, meditations, and writing exercises to help you meet someone – it’s called Magnetize Your Soul Mate – so if you are interested in more in-depth energy work, definitely check it out! In the mean time, here are 5 things you can do to Meet Mr. Right:

1. Get JAZZED 
The more naturally happy and excited you are about life, the more attractive you are to other people. You sparkle and shine like a bright light, and people love light. So listen to some music you love, raise your vibes, and start noticing the life around you!

2. PAY ATTENTION.
A lot of women don’t see the guys around them, or don’t notice an opportunity to smile at someone, or give a guy a chance to talk to them. If you seem in any way to be cold, haughty, aloof, or in “don’t look at me!” mode, nobody is going to talk to you. But if you pay attention, and you’re in an open, receptive, happy mode, you will notice more men, they will notice you, and that will make it that much easier to meet Mr. Right!

3. Look GOOD.
When you love yourself, you love your reflection in the mirror, you wear clothes that make you feel great, your skin is glowing, etc etc etc, it just naturally follows that you’ll be in a better space to meet Mr. Right. So many people KNOW this, but they don’t DO ANYTHING about it. Go look through your closet and tell me you can’t get rid of at least a few things you wear that are not really the very most flattering.

4. Go where the BOYS GO.
Do you get up, drive to work, eat at your desk, drive home, and then repeat the next day, adding in an errand or two? If this is the way it is, how are you EVER going to meet anyone? I get that it’s hard to do things during the week, but just try and be creative. Go to the gym before or after work. Maybe stop at a cafe where cute men are. Eat lunch where men go eat lunch. On the weekends, go where guys go. Sports-related anything, home depot, car shows, church, the park, etc. And when you’re out, GET JAZZED, LOOK GOOD, and PAY ATTENTION!

5. Don’t EVER fear that it won’t happen.
Your create the situations that you focus on. So start getting into that positive mindset and KNOW that you are going to meet him and it’s going to be great. There is no reason why you shouldn’t meet Mr. Right. In fact, it’s statistically in your FAVOR to meet and fall in love with someone. There’s no shortage of men, and with how easy it is to travel and get around these days, you have the entire world at your feet. Believe that you are going to meet him. Make it fun, make it a game, and enjoy every minute of it. This is FUN! This is how manifesting works, at it’s very, very best. You can do it. All it takes is good vibes and your imagination.

Good luck with this, and if you need more help, check out Magnetize Your Soul Mate!