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If you have ever struggled with ANYTHING in your life – be it being single, or constantly dating the wrong type of person, or not finding your purpose in life, or struggling with money – you have likely asked yourself, “Is it just my FATE to go through this?”

And you know, to a certain degree, yes, it is. By the time you’re asking, is this my FATE?!?, fate has officially made her presence known.

Fate does exist. And many of us struggle with things we would really rather not have to struggle with. Why? Because there’s a code in place. You can hack the code, you can change the code, you can re-write the code – but there is always a code.

The code serves as the foundation of your life. If you didn’t come into life with a code, some sort of structure, there would be no order to anything at all. You wouldn’t know what lessons you were here to learn. There wouldn’t be any meaning to anything.

What if it’s Your Fate to be Single?

I focused this video on the idea of whether or not it’s your fate or destiny to be single because someone lovely specifically asked me:

“Do you think there are certain people out there just searching and searching, but not finding anyone because perhaps it’s their fate to be alone?”

Good question, right?! Every person is different, so maybe there are people out there with that fate. However, if you are struggling with being single and NOT WANTING TO BE, that NOT WANTING is a sign that this is something your spirit really really really desires to work on and transform in your lifetime.

Anything that you’re really having a hard time with is something that invites you to look at your core beliefs more deeply and to heal destructive patterns, whether they are conscious, subconscious, ancestral, past-life related, or anything else.

The energy of not finding someone wonderful to be with, and being single, is directly related to love. So if you’re dealing with that and thinking about how fate might have dealt you an unfair hand in that department, you have a specific invitation from Source to delve into and heal your core beliefs about love.

Love is limitless, and the idea that it can be withheld is just another construct of the human condition. It’s a fear picture that is not REAL. Why should you withhold love from yourself? Why would you think anyone would withhold love from you? Just because you experienced a withholding of love in the past does not mean that that’s how it’s always going to be.

Once you open up to more love, you break the code and end the cycle and pattern that keeps you attracting the wrong person, or nobody at all. Have you noticed that your reality matches your vibration? You won’t even be magnetizing in people who are afraid to love you. It will all change.

We all have a code, but that code can be hacked by changing your beliefs around the struggle, and by healing your vibration so that everything in turn shifts. And that healing work is FUN!!!!!!! It is meant to be enjoyed. You will feel liberated, lighter, and happier. And then you will notice things changing for the better. It might take time, but what else are you gonna do anyway!?! It’ll be time well spent. 🙂

P.S. And speaking of fate, who knows if perhaps fate has someone lined up for you in her own timeframe? I know of MANY people who thought they would never meet The One, until they did. In fact, my best friend from high school was just talking to me on the phone a few months ago, in tears, fearing that this was it: she was never, ever going to meet him. And then one day out of the blue, someone suggested she go out with this guy. And she did. And he is wonderful, and people ask them how long they’ve known each other because it seems like they’ve been together forever. They’ve only been dating for a couple of months, and they’re moving in. He has my seal of approval. 😉 Everything changed in an instant. HAPPY!!!!


When I learned how to be psychic, I was super jazzed and excited about being able to google the universe for answers to help people. I had no idea that the NUMBER ONE thing they’d be asking for help with was romantic relationships. Now I know, and now you know – it’s the NUMBER ONE THING people want to know about!

Of course that makes sense. We all want to love and to be loved.

So here’s a little secret for you: when people ask me what is standing in the way of them meeting someone, one of the most interesting and common things I see is that, in some way or another, they are projecting the energy of FEAR rather than the energy of HOPE. It’s like they’re afraid they’ll bring in the wrong person, or someone they don’t find attractive, or someone awful, or someone who will hurt them.

But that fear is exactly what blocks them from magnetizing the ideal person in. And I get the fear, I mean really, so many people have been completely hurt by others, and the dating scene from what I hear can be BRUTAL. Especially online dating. And then there’s the texting. And the men who disappear without a trace. I hear a lot about that and it’s awful. So I GET IT!!!! And yet, approaching it all from a place of fear is just what brings in more of it. But hope, on the other hand, changes all of that.

Hope can be hard to muster, especially in the face of adversity, but you have every reason to have hope, and to trust that you will find the right person for you. If you want it, I promise you, you will have it. Ask and it is given, remember? It’s true!!!

With billions and billions of people on the planet right now, and the ability to travel and go anywhere you want, there isn’t any reason why you wouldn’t meet someone. It was only in the olden days, only for your ancestors, that the pool was very limited and choices few and far between. Sometimes we can’t help but carry the genetic imprint of that fear and limitation with us, but the mere knowledge that it’s there can help you heal and release it, and get back to having hope, which changes everything.


Hi and Happy Thanksgiving!

Or not so happy, if you’re dreading family time like so many others this year. If you feel like you don’t fit in with your family and wonder if you are perhaps a changeling (in ancient lore, that’s a fairy baby: the fairies come in and steal the human baby and put a changeling in it’s place in the cradle), try this short test and find out:

You might possibly be a Changeling if:

1. You feel like you are from an entirely different planet than your family
2. Your parents and siblings just don’t understand or accept you or your views
3. Your family doesn’t really know who you are and they don’t seem to want to know either
4. No matter what you say to your family, it’s heard through a terrible filter
5. You feel really bad about yourself after spending time with your family

OK, all sadness aside (because that test is sad! My energy goes down every time I read it), a lot of beautiful radiant light workers like YOU really don’t connect with their families of origin, and it’s one of the most incredibly difficult and painful things for a person to deal with.

In fact, on the whole topic of fate vs. free will which I have been thinking about a lot lately, the family thing is one of those definite FATE things that happens right off the bat. Here you are, emerging into the world fresh and new and straight from source, right into the hands of…OH GOD NO, NOT THIS AGAIN!

If you feel you aren’t a part of the tribe you were born into, the truth of the matter is that this is definitely something your spirit chose to go through in order to grow and evolve. By feeling what it’s like to be misunderstood, rejected, mistreated or abandoned, your spirit is undergoing sort of like the SAT’s of spiritual evolution in the face of adversity.

How do you ace that test? By separating, healing yourself, forgiving yourself and them, and by sharing your light with people who do love and accept you. There are more healing modalities available to you than ever before, too, and so many light workers all over the planet who can help you with great love. The process should actually be fun, because doing the things you need to do to heal make you feel GOOD – great even. It’s not like you have to toil through it. You can grow with joy, with light, and with love (and a lot of self-love too, because that is essential).

If everything were easy, if you had parents that thought the world of you and siblings who were your best friends and just a perfect Norman Rockwell family…well, you’d get challenges in other areas of your life. And maybe it seems like people with great families have more support when facing those challenges, but we can’t know that for sure. Everyone’s path is unique, and you don’t know what it’s like to be in their shoes unless you ARE them.

Anyway, in the video above are some basic tips for coping with your family when you’re on the spiritual path (and you suspect you may be a fairy baby/changeling). And for the record, two of my dearest friends are downright boycotting Thanksgiving altogether – which you have every right to do if you feel so inclined.



I hope you’re getting through the week OK and are processing and channeling out all the energy and emotions swirling around the noosphere. If you want me to talk more about that I will – just email me what you need and I can make a video: ask@krishanti.com.

But for today, I figured I’d mention something interesting about when the ego wants something the spirit didn’t necessarily intend to have happen in this lifetime. So with that…

The NUMBER ONE topic that comes up in sessions is about relationships.

And one common theme about relationships is regarding women (95% of the people I work with are women so it makes sense) who have had trouble coupling or manifesting a husband.

From a “here on earth” level it makes perfect sense. Who doesn’t want a Happily Ever After? Dating has never been easy, and now it seems even harder what with texting and crazy dating apps and no accountability whatsoever.

But from an Akashic Records point of view, something altogether different is happening. It’s about experiencing complete liberation and freedom that women have never been able to have in the HISTORY OF THE PLANET. EVER.

So if you’re having a hard time, just sit with the idea of this. And if it rings true for you, you can begin to do inner work to release karmic patterns of having been restricted, trapped in bad marriages, and whatever else might have happened in past lifetimes. You can shift your vibration and acknowledge that you are now changing the pattern and carving a new path that allows you to co-create the life you want to have with the kind of partner you’d like to share it with.

And you can make it happen, because remember – YOU ARE LIMITLESS.


Let me start out by saying that this wasn’t meant to have anything to do with the US election. I recorded it in September. But I felt it might be timely, and so here it is. And I’m not going to say anything political because there is enough of all that going around and my voicing my opinion here doesn’t matter as much as just sharing what I know can help if you’re feeling upset by this, or by anything else in your life.

So video above explains spiritual things you can do to get grounded and regain hope when you feel crushed and powerless. I’ll sum them up, and add a few, below:

  • Breathe
  • Breathe some more
  • Listen to music
  • Keep your vibe light by eating clean foods
  • Hydrate with water or coconut water
  • Take care of your body: shower, bathe, groom! Get a wax, get a facial, a mani/pedi, a body scrub, get your hair done (but nothing you might later regret girl), get a massage, soak in sea salts, get into a wood sauna or steam room, get some acupuncture or acupressure or cupping and any and everything else you can think of for your PHYSICAL BODY!
  • Do something for someone else
  • Donate your time or money to a charitable cause
  • Pray to higher power, angels, ascended masters, and guides
  • Watch a good movie or 2 or 3
  • Read a good book
  • Talk it out with friends or family or your therapist or healer
  • Go running, swimming, cycling, or do yoga or anything physical
  • Rest
  • Meditate
  • Keep breathing
  • Get an energy healing (any kind that resonates with you)
  • Garden, walk, hike, swim: commune with nature
  • Talk to or pet animals
  • Shop
  • Sing and dance if you can
  • Do any other self-soothing, self-caring ritual your intuition guides you to

Remember, too, that you’re not alone. You’re never alone. We all go through things and there is always a cycle to the way events occur in our lives. Let’s just hold the space for each other now, share the love and light, and be good to one another. In the end, love and light always prevail.


If you are interested in boosting your psychic and intuitive abilities, I’ve got a great exercise for you in the video above: psychometry! It’s the art of reading the energy of objects, and I guarantee you, if you try it with me, you’ll be amazed by what you pick up.

Everything holds patterns of energy: jewelry, keys, even lipstick! If you open up the powerful chakras in the palms of your hands, you can sense the energy of different objects and do a reading on the person who is energetically attached to them. It’s a super fun exercise and so easy to do. I love leading groups of people through psychometry exercises because everyone gets an intuitive hit on at least one thing – be it through feelings (happy or sad, etc.), vibrations (fast or slow), clairvoyant imagery (pictures in your mind) or clairaudience (thoughts/messages).

To that end, it’s important to remember how the things we possess carry an energetic vibration of their own that can keep us stuck or help us move forward. If you’re ready to make more space in your life, or create changes, take a look at one or all of the following material objects in your life:

  • Shoes
  • Clothes
  • Jewelry
  • Furniture
  • Books
  • Everything in your kitchen
  • Everything in your bathroom
  • Decorative Items
  • Nick-Nacks
  • Music and movies in your playlists
  • Email in your inboxes

And then clean them, re-organize them, or get rid of them. There’s no need to get super attached to material things that don’t serve you. Also, there’s no need to hoard things. Here’s an embarrassing confession I will tell you just to let you know how I’ve been working through this issue: I LOVE makeup and beauty products, and I used to save really good stuff when it was given to me by friends in the industry. I realized last year that I had saved some of these things for so long that they weren’t even good anymore – I had to throw them out!!!! Imagine throwing out Nars and Chanel – for shame, for shame! 🙂 Upon introspection, I realized I’d saved this good loot for fear I wouldn’t get any more. Now I use stuff when I get it – and I get MORE of it to boot – it’s as if I’m learning that the more I use what I have, the more comes! I can use it myself, give it away, whatever I want – and there is always more!!!! It’s great fun now and I’m so grateful for this opportunity to learn an important lesson here.

I hope this helps, and that you have fun with psychometry too. You can also use it to decide whether to get rid of an object or keep it (or buy it in the first place!). And remember, when you keep the stuff around you clean and clear and flowing and moving, you’ll find your thought patterns, energy, and life circumstances will do the same.


The “Spiritual” Look

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This is somewhat of a light topic this week, so I’ll keep the message short too. It’s about fashion, image, and the “spiritual” look. I LOVE the “spiritual” look and I love the topic of personal style and how we use it to tell ourselves and the world a story about who we are.

Adapting a “spiritual” look means a lot of different things to a lot of people. Monks wear robes. Sikhs wear turbans. Nuns wear habits. Many other spiritual people don uniforms that adhere to their spiritual lifestyle. And a lot of people wear crystals, stones, beads, and all sorts of things that remind them of their spiritual path. In fact, last year I had golden earrings made for me in the form of a rose. These earrings are an homage to my clairvoyant training, which changed my life. The specific clairvoyant method I use taught us to direct our imagery into viewing receptacle in the form of a rose, and it’s so special to me I wanted to have earrings to remind me of how beautiful and precious this work is.

In the video above, I explore the topic of the spiritual look a bit with some anecdotes about the whole thing. What is interesting for me personally is how people react to me considering I look very normal and not woo-woo and may seem in fact perhaps a tad conservative. I am gradually getting back to my very bohemian roots and like reinventing my look every year, but my time spent in corporate America, as well as my wish to be taken seriously with this psychic and energy healing stuff which EVERYONE CAN LEARN HOW TO DO!, makes me want to present a more approachable appearance.

There are 2 things we have to remember about our look: one is that we can constantly change it and reinvent ourselves WHENEVER WE WANT. Why stay stuck in a rut? Why not try out new colors, new styles, new things? It’s fun and a great way to instigate change in other areas of our lives.

The second thing is that we can’t really judge a book by a cover. Any charlatan can put on a robe and call themselves a guru, just like any mom running around town in “athleisurewear” can be a spiritual teacher, clairvoyant, and energy healer even if she looks super plain and normal.

So, just a simple but interesting topic today…if you have any comments on the matter or observations from your own life please let me know! 🙂


I love the concept of time traveling and I talked about it in a video a few months ago, but something that I didn’t cover in depth was the idea of time traveling into the future, and then CHANGING IT to affect a more positive outcome.

In the movies, they all say that you can’t and mustn’t do anything to change the future or the past because it will just mess everything up on a grand scheme. And also, when it comes to all of this stuff, how can you know you really did change it because it’s the future and it hasn’t happened yet?!

But I beg to differ.

I know this is an intense concept and rather philosophical, but it comes up frequently in readings, so I thought, why not talk about it!

First of all, our consciousness is not limited to right here and right now. It can definitely be with other people and other places, it can travel into the past, and it can go into the future.

Secondly, we have free will.

And thirdly, we are more powerful than we know.

In the deep state of hypnosis that comes about when you do retrocognitive past life work and view who and what you’ve been in other lifetimes, you can also opt to catapult yourself into the future to check it out. I have done it and I’ve seen what I noted actually come to pass. Others have done it too.

In the same way that Ebenezer Scrooge was shown different outcomes of his life in Charles Dickens’ A Christmas Carol, so too can we get an idea of where we’re headed – and one way to do this is to view the future and change it by altering what we’re doing now.

Some things are unavoidable, and that’s all about karma, fate, and God. But some things can be altered or mitigated or changed so that they’re not as bad as they could have been. Group efforts are great at doing this, as the power of a group is much stronger than that of one person.

Some of life’s circumstances are definitely set in stone. But with free will and a reasoning mind, we have the capacity to do a lot more with our consciousness than we are doing at the present moment. If there are things about your future you know or sense are going to happen, and you don’t want things to go that way, you can make changes right now that could very well alter that outcome.

Then all you’ll have to do is wait for the future to arrive to find out how it goes!


Even though we all know the future is VERY mutable and changeable and NOT set in stone, when it comes to getting readings, it’s one of those things EVERYONE wants to take a sneak peek at. We want an idea of what’s going to happen; we want to know how things are going to turn out. We want to know who is coming and when and where and why and what it’s going to mean and how it’s going to happen.

But as much as we like to believe that we have control over things and can manifest whatever we want in life, however we want it, the sad truth is, some things are not up to us to decide. Some things are it’s just about…

FATE.

That four-letter word we don’t like to think exists (unless it’s tied to something really incredible and amazing).

How we detest the idea of fate!!! We want to be in control; we want things to go the way we want them to.

But we are all here to learn lessons, to go through things, to learn, evolve, and grow. And that means that we have to sometimes wait longer than we want for soul mates to appear. That we have to deal with similar types of situations. That it’s our fate for this to happen or for that to happen.

In the video above, I wax on a bit about fate vs. free will. What’s very intriguing to me that I’ve noticed a lot lately is that you can create different variables related to a situation, but the core lesson will still remain. For instance, you can not marry one person, and then marry another, and have a very similar type of situation occur in that relationship that would have occurred if you’d married the other person. That’s just one example – but there are billions of different potential situations this can be applied to, from the minute to the OMG that is HUGE.

Yes, we do have a certain degree of control in our lives – but we can’t control everything. And that’s where fate comes in. Maybe it’s not such a bad word after all…because who knows what would happen if there wasn’t a higher force setting the stage for life as it unfolds?


If you’re reading this, you are someone who has done or is doing a lot of work on yourself – as am I. So you know what I’m talking about when I say that a) sometimes it can feel arduous and b) it’s supposed to be FUN.

We tend to forget the fun part – how good it’s supposed to feel when we’re “working” on ourselves. But in order for improvement to really be effective, it helps to love the process. Which means, we get to listen to music we love. To run and play and do things we love to do, things that make us feel good while we’re doing them and make us feel even better afterwards.

I have seen first hand how the light conquers the dark. And believe you me when I tell you, light wins with laughter (and I’m not talking Sunday School squeaky clean humor here either). Light wins with music – even rap music and dance music. Light wins with celebrating life, with love and gratitude and giving back and praying and meditating, in a way that’s real and flows authentically.

All of the work we do on ourselves is essentially an attempt to bring out the divine in us so we can get through this dark, dense earth plane (well, the human aspect of it) and transform it into more light while we’re here. We are divine beings just having a human experience for now.

So let’s have fun with it!!!!!